Chapter 1: An Emotional Affair
He looked at me and said, “You’re not like her.” We had an argument the night before. Though calling it an argument presumes both of us were yelling, which wasn’t
Chapter 1: Lessons Learned
I. Protect Yourself Financially When you first find out about your spouse’s infidelity, pure shock likely will be your initial reaction. It is difficult to think clearly when you are
Chapter 2: “Good Night My Wendi”
I saw this text when I checked his phone after Scott went to bed on a Friday night in August, a full 14 months after his initial admission and promise
Chapter 2: Lessons Learned
I. Get Tested Once you discover your husband has had sexual relations with the other woman, you must assume you have been exposed to whatever sexual cesspool she has been
Chapter 3: Move Out But “Date” Me? I Don’t Think So!!!
Scott moved out of the house the following year, on a Sunday morning, the first week of October. “I need the space to decide if I really want to be
Chapter 3: Lessons Learned
I. Take Control of the Family Finances Your husband just moved out, saying he needed space. There is another woman, she is younger, and has two small kids. She is
Chapter 4: The Right Lawyer
I needed to find a different lawyer. Wanda (with Jeffry sometimes coming in as additional firepower) just didn’t feel right to me. I had gone to Jeffry initially at the
Chapter 4: Lessons Learned
I. Choosing a Lawyer Managing the legal process is unbelievably tough, especially when you are in a fragile emotional state. Picking a divorce lawyer is one of the most important
Chapter 5: “It Is A Very Fair Offer”
Scott’s first suspicious cash withdrawal occurred in the fall of 2008. He announced his “emotional affair” with Wendi in June of 2010. Had he been screwing her for almost two
Chapter 5: Lessons Learned
I. Looking at a Settlement Offer You (or your husband) have formally filed for divorce. You both want to move on with your life. Naturally, you are anxious to get