Chapter 6: Hotels.com: The Smoking Gun
The Virgin Mobile subpoena was initially unsuccessful. They required both the credit card information (which we had) and the phone number (which we didn’t). The subpoenas to Victoria’s Secret, Jewelry
Chapter 6: Lessons Learned
I. Researching Phone Numbers He Has Called Whether or not your husband has a hidden phone, a time may come when you start to wonder whether there is more than
Chapter 7: Managing the Emotional Rollercoaster
Our couples’ therapist, in the two plus years we saw him before Scott and I separated, was at best ineffectual. At worst, he was harmful to me personally. I did
Chapter 7: Lessons Learned
Even in the best of circumstances, going through a divorce is a gut-wrenching process filled with uncertainty about how it will impact your kids, how you will end up financially and
Chapter 8: Birthday Benders
My lawyers asked if I could write vignettes about Scott’s behavior – snapshots of what he was doing at particular points in time. They thought this would be helpful in
Chapter 8: Lessons Learned
To prove your spouse has been unfaithful, you have collected and analyzed your records and subpoenaed documents. When the information indicates extensive spending in a variety of places (and even
Chapter 9: Why Didn’t I Think of That?
Scott’s credit card records made clear he had paid for memberships to quite a few dating websites, particularly sites where men were searching for sugar babies, mistresses and hookups. I
Chapter 9: Lessons Learned
Sleuthing to find your husband’s dating profiles requires a bit of creativity and a lot of trial and error. A critical step is finding the first profile. Once you have
Chapter 10: The Fifth Amendment
The first day of Scott’s multi-day deposition was December 2, 2013, about eleven months after we had filed for divorce. It didn’t take my attorney long to begin asking Scott
Chapter 10: Lessons Learned
If your spouse’s bad behavior will be addressed in his deposition, your attorney needs hard proof to back up the infidelity questions. This was especially true for me because of