Chapter 1: Lessons Learned
I. Protect Yourself Financially When you first find out about your spouse’s infidelity, pure shock likely will be your initial reaction. It is difficult to think clearly when you are
I. Protect Yourself Financially When you first find out about your spouse’s infidelity, pure shock likely will be your initial reaction. It is difficult to think clearly when you are
I. Get Tested Once you discover your husband has had sexual relations with the other woman, you must assume you have been exposed to whatever sexual cesspool she has been
I. Take Control of the Family Finances Your husband just moved out, saying he needed space. There is another woman, she is younger, and has two small kids. She is
I. Choosing a Lawyer Managing the legal process is unbelievably tough, especially when you are in a fragile emotional state. Picking a divorce lawyer is one of the most important
I. Looking at a Settlement Offer You (or your husband) have formally filed for divorce. You both want to move on with your life. Naturally, you are anxious to get
I. Researching Phone Numbers He Has Called Whether or not your husband has a hidden phone, a time may come when you start to wonder whether there is more than
Even in the best of circumstances, going through a divorce is a gut-wrenching process filled with uncertainty about how it will impact your kids, how you will end up financially and
To prove your spouse has been unfaithful, you have collected and analyzed your records and subpoenaed documents. When the information indicates extensive spending in a variety of places (and even
Sleuthing to find your husband’s dating profiles requires a bit of creativity and a lot of trial and error. A critical step is finding the first profile. Once you have
If your spouse’s bad behavior will be addressed in his deposition, your attorney needs hard proof to back up the infidelity questions. This was especially true for me because of