And I Can Prove It: Divorcing a Cheater

And I Can Prove It: Divorcing a Cheater

  • The Lessons Learned

Chapter 1: Lessons Learned

Gail Owen May 1, 2019

I. Protect Yourself Financially  When you first find out about your spouse’s infidelity, pure shock likely will be your initial reaction. It is difficult to think clearly when you are

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Chapter 2: Lessons Learned

Gail Owen April 30, 2019

I. Get Tested Once you discover your husband has had sexual relations with the other woman, you must assume you have been exposed to whatever sexual cesspool she has been

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Chapter 3: Lessons Learned

Gail Owen April 29, 2019

I. Take Control of the Family Finances Your husband just moved out, saying he needed space. There is another woman, she is younger, and has two small kids. She is

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Chapter 4: Lessons Learned

Gail Owen April 28, 2019

I. Choosing a Lawyer Managing the legal process is unbelievably tough, especially when you are in a fragile emotional state. Picking a divorce lawyer is one of the most important

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Chapter 5: Lessons Learned

Gail Owen April 27, 2019

I. Looking at a Settlement Offer You (or your husband) have formally filed for divorce. You both want to move on with your life. Naturally, you are anxious to get

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Chapter 6: Lessons Learned

Gail Owen April 26, 2019

I. Researching Phone Numbers He Has Called Whether or not your husband has a hidden phone, a time may come when you start to wonder whether there is more than

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Chapter 7: Lessons Learned

Gail Owen April 25, 2019

Even in the best of circumstances, going through a divorce is a gut-wrenching process filled with uncertainty about how it will impact your kids, how you will end up financially and

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Chapter 8: Lessons Learned

Gail Owen April 24, 2019

To prove your spouse has been unfaithful, you have collected and analyzed your records and subpoenaed documents. When the information indicates extensive spending in a variety of places (and even

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Chapter 9: Lessons Learned

Gail Owen April 23, 2019

Sleuthing to find your husband’s dating profiles requires a bit of creativity and a lot of trial and error. A critical step is finding the first profile. Once you have

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Chapter 10: Lessons Learned

Gail Owen April 22, 2019

If your spouse’s bad behavior will be addressed in his deposition, your attorney needs hard proof to back up the infidelity questions. This was especially true for me because of

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  • Chapter 1: An Emotional Affair
  • Chapter 1: Lessons Learned
  • Chapter 2: “Good Night My Wendi”
  • Chapter 2: Lessons Learned
  • Chapter 3: Move Out But “Date” Me? I Don’t Think So!!!
  • Chapter 3: Lessons Learned
  • Chapter 4: The Right Lawyer
  • Chapter 4: Lessons Learned
  • Chapter 5: “It Is A Very Fair Offer”
  • Chapter 5: Lessons Learned
  • Chapter 6: Hotels.com: The Smoking Gun
  • Chapter 6: Lessons Learned
  • Chapter 7: Managing the Emotional Rollercoaster
  • Chapter 7: Lessons Learned
  • Chapter 8: Birthday Benders
  • Chapter 8: Lessons Learned
  • Chapter 9: Why Didn’t I Think of That?
  • Chapter 9: Lessons Learned
  • Chapter 10: The Fifth Amendment
  • Chapter 10: Lessons Learned
  • Chapter 11: We Suck at Negotiation
  • Chapter 11: Lessons Learned
  • Chapter 12: My Financial Statement
  • Chapter 12: Lessons Learned
  • Chapter 13: It (Almost) All Comes Out at Trial
  • Chapter 13: Lessons Learned
  • Chapter 14: The Judgement
  • Chapter 14: Lessons Learned
  • Epilogue: Spring, 2019

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