He looked at me and said, “You’re not like her.” We had an argument the night before. Though calling it an argument presumes both of us were yelling, which wasn’t

I saw this text when I checked his phone after Scott went to bed on a Friday night in August, a full 14 months after his initial admission and promise

Scott moved out of the house the following year, on a Sunday morning, the first week of October. “I need the space to decide if I really want to be

I needed to find a different lawyer. Wanda (with Jeffry sometimes coming in as additional firepower) just didn’t feel right to me. I had gone to Jeffry initially at the

Scott’s first suspicious cash withdrawal occurred in the fall of 2008. He announced his “emotional affair” with Wendi in June of 2010. Had he been screwing her for almost two

The Virgin Mobile subpoena was initially unsuccessful. They required both the credit card information (which we had) and the phone number (which we didn’t). The subpoenas to Victoria’s Secret, Jewelry

Our couples’ therapist, in the two plus years we saw him before Scott and I separated, was at best ineffectual. At worst, he was harmful to me personally. I did

My lawyers asked if I could write vignettes about Scott’s behavior – snapshots of what he was doing at particular points in time. They thought this would be helpful in

Scott’s credit card records made clear he had paid for memberships to quite a few dating websites, particularly sites where men were searching for sugar babies, mistresses and hookups. I

The first day of Scott’s multi-day deposition was December 2, 2013, about eleven months after we had filed for divorce. It didn’t take my attorney long to begin asking Scott